Halloween was a pretty big deal when I was young. As I’ve
mentioned before, I lived on a circle, and depending on who had moved in or
out, there were between 15 and 20 kids of trick-or-treating age in the
neighborhood, plus others who came from nearby neighborhoods on that night. So
it wasn’t uncommon to see several dozen kids dressed in costumes wandering
around the circle on Halloween. Almost all the houses gave out candy, although
usually one or two didn’t. My friends and I had a great time and I looked
forward to Halloween for months beforehand . . . admittedly, mostly for the
candy, but I enjoyed figuring out what costume I wanted to wear, too.
One year my mother made me a ghost costume out of an old sheet. That happened
to be the year it was cold and rainy, but I went out anyway and by the time I
got home my ghost costume was mud up to the knees. Well, like I said, it was an
old sheet, so it went right in the trash.
Those good times lasted until I was about twelve. Nobody older than that
trick-or-treated in those days. It wasn’t cool. So I became the official
dispenser of candy at our house for a few years, until I was in high school and
went running around with my friends instead. We were basically good kids so we
never really got into any trouble (although there were a few times we came
close). One of the local TV stations also showed monster movies on Halloween
most years, so I watched a lot of those, too.
One year during high school, a friend of mine decided to dress up as Dracula.
He came over to my house to hang around in the shadows near the front porch and
jump out to scare the kids when they came up to trick-or-treat. When he got
there, he decided to act like he was going to suck my blood, and I put out a
hand to ward him off. Unfortunately, his costume had several straight pins in
it, and one of them went right into the ball of my hand. We had some real blood
that Halloween to go with the fake stuff. But it was a minor injury and the
rest of the evening went well. Many scares were delivered to the neighborhood
kids.
That was also the evening I tried to get a little romance going with one of the
girls who lived on the circle, but there were no tricks or treats in that area.
Halloween was pretty much a non-factor for me during my college years. I’m sure
there were parties, but I didn’t go to them. I might have watched a monster
movie for nostalgia’s sake now and then. And after Livia and I got married, we
lived in the country, so we didn’t have
trick-or-treaters to deal with. When our kids came along and got old enough to
want to trick-or-treat, we took them over to the circle and I walked around
with them and recaptured a little of that old magic for a while. But it was
already not nearly as big a deal as it had been when I was growing up. More
houses were dark, and there weren’t as many kids out.
We also took the girls to various “Fall Festivals” at church, which by some
coincidence just happened to fall on October 31 . . .
Now, I haven’t even seen a trick-or-treater in close to twenty years. I don’t
know if the kids who live over on the circle ever get out and do that or not. I
hope the tradition lives on somewhere and is as fun and innocent as it was all
those years ago. I kind of doubt it . . . but I hope so anyway.